This is something I learned from my daily dealings in in College this year and I am pretty sure everybody else would agree with what i say below.
~ Never expect anything from anyone...
(The closer you are to someone, the harder and more important it gets).
~ Every man is for himself...
(Even if it was someone you thought of as a friend).
~ Change is good only if it helps yourself...
(Be selfish. Don't change because someone wants you to but do it if it makes you feel better).
~Be YOURSELF
(It might not get you a bunch of friends, but it will find you the people who accept you the way you are).
ps. my post on my holiday would be coming up soon Wen Yang